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Friday, October 21, 2011


God creates men and women differently. We are not the same. Each of us has our own strengths and weaknesses which later will complement each other. Let's look at this dialogue:

Nancy: Hi, Darling, how was your day?
Mike: Good.
Nancy: Brian told me that you were going to finalize that big deal with Peter Thompson today. How did it go?
Mike: Fine
Nancy: That’s good. He can be really a tough customer. Do you think he’ll take your advice?
Mike: Yeah.
            .....and so on
(Extracted from “Why Men Don’t Listen & Women Can’t Read Maps”, Allan and Barbara Pease, 2000)

Can we see the differences between these two people choices of words while communicating? Men and women, are they really two different species created by God? Frankly speaking, I am pleased to say yes, they are.  There are many differences between men and women especially in terms of language use in communication. However, these two creatures are still complementing each other. They have their own strengths and weaknesses. As for me, the main reason why I said men and women are two different species is because there are huge differences between men’s brains and women’s brains.

An article entitles “10 Big Differences between Men’s and Women’s Brains” (Hansley, 2009) stated that experts have discovered there are actually differences in the way women’s and men’s brains are structured and in the way they react to events and stimuli.  Hansley describes on left brain vs. both hemisphere. It has been found out that, men are better in the left hemisphere while women are better in both hemispheres. It has been found out the two sections of the brain responsible for language were used by women. Men typically process language in their dominant hemisphere.

Therefore, men out there do not simply put blame on women and label them as having two mouths. And ladies, do not be angry if your partners do not show any reaction when you ask their opinions or anything because that's how their brain is developed. Thanks to Allah. That's the beauty of us. Can u imagine if both creatures love to talk without knowing how to stop. If that so, who is going to listen because everyone wants to talk. So, ladies and gentlemen, get to know your partners. This book by Allan & Barbara Pease is really good in getting to know how men and women are different. Hopefully, we can have a good relationship with our partner as we know who they are, naturally. Good Luck..;)

(sila sengetkan kepala anda.TQ)

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